When I saw this post back in August 2011, I had to ask if I could share it here. It was written by the fantastic couple of Words of Williams, Kelsey and Eric! That's where they write about their marriage, finances, faith, and other awesome things. (PS - Kelsey also has a style blog at Snappy Casual.) They're expecting their first baby in March 2012 (congrats!) and I'm sure they'll plenty of financial decisions in their future. Thanks again for letting me share!
We have seen our savings grow in the past seven months as we work to save up for 3-6 months worth of expenses. It’s easy to see the dollars stacking up and think how easy it would be to pull from savings and replenish that amount later; the consequences of which pushes back our deadline for completing this baby step and delays our financial goals in the future.
This all sounds like one of my favorite Dave Ramsey quotes:
“Children do what feels good. Adults devise a plan and follow it.”Meaning, it would be childish for us to buy bikes now with money that has been saved for a different purpose.
We both have a gut feeling that we shouldn’t buy the bikes yet. And we are choosing to do ourselves a favor and not have buyer’s remorse, so we are holding off on the purchase at this time. We don’t think we deserve them yet (we both have mountain bikes already). After taking Financial Peace University and developing a foundation of beliefs about money, we typically agree when these types of things come up (but not always–remember our $12 negotiation?).
So, we decided to hold off until spring 2012 and re-evaluate our financial situation at that time (it makes seasonal sense now that the summer is already winding down). We hope to save some of our Christmas money to put toward bikes next spring, and we might even start to save a little bit of money on a monthly basis so that when spring comes there won’t be as much to save in a short period of time.
We make decisions like this all of the time with our budget, and the key to the whole process is communication. If we don’t talk about these types of buying decisions, then we both lose focus of our goals. We need each other for accountability. If you are single, ask a trusted friend to be your accountability partner–someone you can call when you are thinking of making a purchase over $X amount. Just make sure they have the guts to tell you no when you need to hear it.
Here are some questions you can ask when deciding on a financial decision:
- Is this a need or a want? (Be honest!)
- What is the opportunity cost (what am I losing out on) if I spend this money now?
- Have I made a purchase like this in the past and neglected to use that item as much as I thought I would? (I’m guilty of this! Ahem, Nintendo Wii, I’m looking at you!)
- How will I feel after making this purchase?
- How long have I been considering the purchase? (If it is a want, you can still buy the item. But, we know that it’s better to have walkaway power and buy the item out of a rational mind rather than an emotional one.)
How do you make big financial decisions?
I'll go first, John and I definitely talk things over before making a big purchase. The house being the largest one to date. And sometimes I even check in with him before making a small, impulsive purchase. Gotta watch for those as little purchases can add up and undermine our budget.
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